Middle school is a local decision
NFHS writes rules for grades 9 through 12. Nobody writes a national middle school discus rule, so the weight comes from your state association, your league, or the meet director. In practice nearly everyone uses the 1 kg disc for boys and girls, which matches USATF's 11-12 and 13-14 divisions. Read the meet information before you buy anything. The shot put has the same gap in national coverage, covered in high school shot put weight.

